One of the most important things to keep in mind about two-faced people is that they should never be someone you call a friend.
Almost everyone knows a person who will talk badly about someone behind their back, but to their face they’re nice and polite.
Once two-faced people reveal themselves, try to break the ties immediately and start surrounding yourself with authentic people.
Unfortunately, spotting these types of people – who are so good at pretending they care, are honest and genuine – can be difficult. Both men and women are capable of acting this way.
A two-faced person will display attributes similar to that of a liar: having no emotion in their eyes when talking about sensitive subjects, a frozen or fake smile on their face, avoiding eye contact, fidgeting with their hands (or hides them in pockets/under the table etc), and also crosses their arms to subconsciously protect themselves.
Here are just a few ways to deal with them if you meet one.
– Don’t stoop to their level.
– Be careful what you say around them.
– Stay away from drama queens/kings – don’t get sucked into their stories.
– Be aloof, not too cool, nor too warm.
– If you stand up for yourself, you can potentially scare them off, because most two-faced people are cowards who hate confrontation and don’t care if they backstab others.
You can confront them, if you suspect they’re hiding something, but be prepared for backlash and a cover-up of twisted lies along with many empty promises.
Two-faced people are nothing more than mean-spirited individuals, who have nothing better to do than sit around and talk about you behind your back for no reason. They often make others feel bad to make themselves feel good, so don’t believe their snide remarks, because what they say is not true.
Their betrayal and lies should be enough affirmation for you to run for the hills. You will be the better person if you carry on with your head held high, have love in your heart, and a smile on your face – that’s your best revenge.