Ruth Tibebe, student at University of Lethbridge demonstrating emotions led by domestic violence. Photo illustration by Brenda Cherotich

The novel, ‘It Ends With Us’ published on August 2016 by Colleen Hoover, brings attention to people as it shines light on dark truths of domestic violence being dismissed in families and later affecting the lives of children. For millions of survivors, home is not a sanctuary, but a battleground. Domestic violence shatters lives, silences voices and destroys dreams.

Colleen Hoover’s novel “It Ends With Us” not only tells a gripping love story but also serves as a powerful reflection of the complexities surrounding domestic abuse.

The narrative sheds light on the emotional and psychological struggles faced by victims, offering a key element to understanding this prevailing issue.

“It Ends With Us” follows Lily Bloom, a young woman navigating self-discovery, love’s twists and turns.

At first glance, her relationship with Ryle Kincaid appears ideal, filled with passion and ambition. However, as the story unfolds, the deceptive nature of domestic violence reveals itself, challenging readers to confront the often-unspoken realities of abusive relationships.

Bloom’s past whispers painful truths: domestic violence isn’t just a brutal act, but a subtle erosion of self-worth.

Despite the challenges, awareness and advocacy around, domestic violence has grown in recent years.

Organizations across Canada are working tirelessly to provide support, education, and resources for victims.

Shelters, hotlines, and community programs play a vital role in offering immediate assistance and long-term recovery options.

Statistics paint a harsh picture of domestic violence in Canada.

According to the Canadian Women’s Foundation, one in three women will experience physical or sexual violence from an intimate partner in their lifetime. This reality demands an intersectional approach to understanding and addressing the issue

One of the novel’s most compelling aspects is its exploration of the psychological grip that abusers can have on their victims.

The emotional battle portrayed in “It Ends With Us” highlights the difficult reality that leaving an abusive relationship is often charged with complications, including feelings of guilt, shame, and dependency.

“I think understanding the reasons behind the decisions of a victim carries a heavy load. Watching someone you love go through it or choosing to go through it yourself is a tough call and definitely should not be underestimated,” said Lucy Parker, a University of Lethbridge student and a book enthusiast, who has read the book and watched the movie.

Support systems play a vital role in the narrative, reflecting their importance in real life.

 Bloom’s friendships and connections provide her with the strength to confront her situation, reflecting the real-world necessity of community support for those experiencing domestic violence.

Advocacy for better support and increased awareness is essential to breaking the cycle of violence.

According to Stephanie Olatunji, a student at Lethbridge Polytechnic who is a fan of Hoover’s books, “The book had multiple plot twists, but one thing I really appreciated, was the decision to separate Lily and Ryle. Even though this was very painful for us and them, it was the right thing to do. Life is basically a rollercoaster of emotions.”

Moreover, “It Ends With Us” highlights the need for education around healthy relationships.

Hoover’s portrayal of Lily’s journey emphasizes that awareness and understanding can empower individuals to recognize the warning signs of abuse.

Preventive measures, including programs in schools and communities, are crucial to challenging the attitudes that prolong domestic violence.

By promoting discussions about consent, respect, and emotional well-being, we can create a safer environment for everyone.

In conclusion, “It Ends With Us” is more than just a story about love; it is a powerful reflection of the realities of domestic violence.

Colleen Hoover’s novel encourages readers to confront the complexities of abusive relationships, emphasizing that the journey towards healing often involves difficult choices.

As we continue to raise awareness about domestic violence in Canada, it is imperative that we amplify our efforts to educate, support, and empower victims.